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Humor is human. Animals can show anger, jealousy, hatred, love
and all other human feelings but they cannot laugh.
Humor is caused by three situations: frustration of
expectations in small matters, juxtaposition of two
incongruities, or innocent disrespect of the respected.
Laughter is serious business. It all starts with a smile,
proceeds to a giggle, a chuckle, and may end in a chortle or a
guffaw.
In life duality is a reality. Happiness and miseries coexist:
one can never avoid miseries. A person who understand this
reality can withstand the jolts of life with a sense of humor
and a smiling face. Maulana Ali (AS) has said: "A mumin's
grief is in his heart; his smile is on his face." "Smile and
the world smiles with you; cry and you cry alone." How true!
Smiling brings out the positive energy in you, an energy which
is highly contagious. So once you start smiling everything
around you will be aglow with happiness.
Why do we smile? Maulana Ali (AS) has said "A smiling face
captures affection". A bride's coy half-smile, a mother's soft
smile at her beloved child's antics, a man's satisfied grin at
a job well done and for us mumineen Maula's radiant smile.
Laughter creates a "chemistry" of health and well being.
Scientific research shows that laughter lowers conditions like
blood pressure and increases endorphins that improve our sense
of well being. The most profound effect of laughter is on the
immune system. The 'T' cells that destroy viruses and tumors
increase during a state of mirth.
It is estimated that on an average children laugh 400 times a
day and by the time they are adults its down to 15 times so
where did the 385 laughs go? This has prompted a whole new
genre of clubs where people get together in laughter clubs to
laugh away their worries.
As always there are two sides to a coin and as Maulana Ali
(AS) says "Too much laughter kills the soul". Abusing the tool
of laughter has dire effects on one's personality. Laughter
shouldn't be used to ridicule people, laugh with people not at
them. Don't be disrespectful by laughing at serious subjects.
Too much laughter is a sign of silliness and takes away from
a mumin's esteem and poise. |